2017 - University Church of Christ

Bulletin Articles - 2017

Empty Boxes

Neal Thurman
24 Dec 2017

Congregations are notorious for hanging on to things well beyond the point of usefulness. It is as if we have an innate fear of throwing away something that might be used once, by an unidentified person, at an undetermined time in the future, for an unspecified purpose. Or we fear that discarding an item will offend a member whose great-grandmother used the item three generations previous to perform a task that we no longer do, but it was important to the great-grandmother who passed away 25 year ago. Through the years, I have learned that the University congregation has a real acumen in this realm. We have kept things that no current member even knows what they are or what they do. Recently, I learned just how special we are. Under our stairway, I found a large box that was filled with a bunch of smaller boxes. The smaller boxes were completely empty. Who knows how long we have kept this box of empty boxes! Astonished at my discovery, I began to ponder how some folks treat their lives like congregations often treat storage space. They fill up their lives with things that are no longer useful or are simply empty of value. Sometimes we can be guilty of trying to live through memories. Those memories may be of great success and joy, but they are still memories. Paul wrote, “one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead…” (Philippians 3:13). Good or bad, those memories can teach or comfort, but they are all behind. Success in life lies ahead regardless of the past. We all need to continually press on toward the goal. Others fill the space of their lives with emptiness. This is not their intention, but they fail to recognize true value verses vanity. A life only has a certain amount of space. Unfortunately, folks often fill that space with empty boxes because of failed judgment. John wrote, “ For all that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—is not of the Father but is of the world. 17 And the world is passing away...” (1 John 2:16-17). These things, which so many of us chase after, are in the end but empty boxes taking up useful space. Beloved brethren, we need to fill the space of our lives with things that bring growth, strength, and success. Paul prayed for the Colossian brethren that they “may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding; 10 that you may walk worthy of the Lord...” (Colossians 1:9-10). Filling our lives with the proper things of true substance will nurture our growth toward what God would have us to be. Paul wrote of the Roman brethren, “I myself am confident concerning you, my brethren, that you also are full of goodness, filled with all knowledge, also able to admonish one another,” (Romans 15:14). When are lives are filled with substance and we diligently serve, we can know that our “labor is not in vain in the Lord.” (1 Corinthians 15 15:58).

We Would Love To Help You With That

Neal Thurman
17 Dec 2017

Over the last several months, my wife and I have been seeking the means and manipulating expenditures in an effort to purchase our younger son a dependable vehicle that will carry him through college and beyond. Through internet research, he and I have literally looked at hundreds of cars, (please, no one call me and tell me that you have the perfect car for him ). Websites exist that will compare and reveal what others have paid for a particular vehicle. Last Friday, I was researching on one such site and decided to compare the price of a new vehicle to the slightly used ones I had been reviewing. Shifting to new vehicles required selecting the particular car, my location, and personal contact information. (Word of advice based on experience: if you enjoy peace, stop when they ask for your phone number.) It seemed as though my finger had not fully left the key before my phone rang the first time. In approximately 20 minutes, I had received calls from no less than 6 dealerships with each sales associate expressing how much they would love to assist me with my car buying experience. Two more called before lunch time and another that evening. Some talked as though they wanted to be my best friend. Most wanted to share detailed information about their current inventory. One was particularly aggressive and pressed to set up an appointment that day so he could show me how much he could help me. They all wanted me to know they were available with the sole purpose of serving my needs. They were each undaunted by me saying I was not ready to buy, but was only researching prices and any end of year deals. Three have called a second time and one has called me now three times. “Do you want to build a snowman, I mean car?” As I considered whether to answer the phone when it rings, I pondered over what might happen if we, Christians, had the drive of car salesman when it comes to evangelizing the world around us. I am not suggesting that we inundate people with phone calls and pressure tactics, but what if we pounced with a loving message when someone expressed a bit of interest in the saving power of the gospel. We, myself included, often worry about offending or annoying a person before we have the chance to teach them. This is a reasonable consideration, but it must have limits. It is true that these salesmen have annoyed me, but I admit if I were to buy a new car, it would likely be sold by the one of them that most effectively reached out to me. Remember, they were not going to sale me a car by not calling. So, by calling, they have not diminished their sales. Jesus said, “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature.16 He who believes and is baptized will be saved;…” (Mark 16:15-16). Jesus told his apostles and us, indirectly, to go offer what He had to offer to those who did not have it. In a way, He called for us to sell the lost on the idea of washing sins away and gaining salvation. This requires us to reach out to people and tell them we would love to help to be saved. He tells us that some will not want what He offers, but until we try to be of help, how will we know?

Critical Reception

Neal Thurman
10 Dec 2017

We speak often of the manner with which we ought to approach a brother who has or continues to sin. This is vitally important and should be given serious consideration for the scripture says, “...you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted.” Galatians 6:1. Yet, another side of that coin should also be considered. How ought we to respond when admonished or even rebuked for wrongdoing? This is also revealed in scripture. In 2 Samuel 12:13, David responded to the rebuke of Nathan with a clear acknowledgement and acceptance of responsibility for his sinful deeds. In Galatians 2:11ff, Paul notes the fact that he “withstood Peter to his face,” but later in Peter’s writings he would acknowledged Paul as a “beloved brother” and commended his work and teaching for the Lord, (2 Peter 3:15). This is not to say that every time a person or even a brother throws criticism our way that we are to immediately bow in penance. The fact that criticism is extended is not evidence that a wrong has been committed. The Apostle Paul was often criticized for thing that were either untrue or unaccepted by his accusers. Jews accused him of defiling the temple by bringing Greeks into it. Notice what the scripture says in Acts 21:29, “...whom they supposed that Paul had brought into the temple.” This is only example. Later Paul would say to King Agrippa, “I think myself happy, King Agrippa, because today I shall answer for myself before you concerning all the things of which I am accused by the Jews,” Acts 26:2. So, it is acceptable and reasonable to defend oneself against false or malicious accusation. Sadly, much criticism often resonates from those who have no idea what they are talking about or they have a portion of truth and fill in the rest. Even worse, like the Jews with Paul, some folks have their own agenda for throwing around criticism A determination of truth and accuracy can be righteously made before any response is needed. Still, as with the David and Peter, some admonitions are warranted and necessary. In such cases, the recipient should listen with readiness and should respond first by humbling oneself (James 4:7). Without humility we will never truly appreciate our wrongdoing and thus will be ill prepared to amend it. Next, a Christian should be moved with godly sorrow (2 Corinthians 7:10) and yearn for whatever recompense that is possible. Of course, we recognize that some things cannot be undone. Then one must take the actions of repentance. Repentance is not a concept, but an action. The prodigal son repented when he actually arose and went to his father and confessed (Luke 15:20). This repentance needs to include a confession of sin that the same may be forgiven (1 John 1:9). This forgiven one should then give thanks to God for brethren who have enough love and courage to confront him with the truth. It sure wouldn’t hurt to give that brother a personal thank you as well. Let us seek to have godly attitudes in all things, even when being criticized.

Just Brothers and Sisters

Neal Thurman
3 Dec 2017

Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all, especially to those who are of the household of faith. (Galatians 6:10) Last Friday afternoon, I received a phone call from Brother Dan Manual in regard to a couple of Crocket Road members, mother and daughter, who had recently been involved in a car accident. The mother, 89 years of age, had suffered several injuries and had been recovering at Trinity Mother Francis Hospital. She had reached the point that she was to be moved to a rehab facility. Her daughter was going to be able to stay with her at the rehab, but was not allowed to ride the home’s transport bus. So, Dan asked me if I would be willing to pick the daughter up and drive her to the rehab center. Of course, I agreed, and a couple of phone conversations later we had a time set. Shortly after I arrived, a woman I had never met knocked on the window of my car and asked, “Are you Neal?” I greeted her and got out of the car to help her load her bags into my car. A kind young gentleman accompanied her pushing the cart with her bags and flowers. Looking a bit puzzled the young man asked, “Do you two know each other?” You see, Miss Angela and I do not look much like one another. You could say that we are not on the same end of the spectrum when it comes to appearance. Yet, without missing a beat of handing her possessions to a man she had never met, Miss Angela said definitively, “No, we’re just brother and sister in Christ.” I paused to smile and ponder the response. I would very likely have gone to pick up a friend of Dan’s if he had asked, doing so for brethren was a given. Yet, it was the matter-of-fact nature of the statement, “We’re just brother and sister in Christ,” that caught my attention. It carried with it the implied conclusion that this sufficiently answered every question. Maybe it said everything. We do not need to be blood-kin, we are together covered by divine blood (Revelation 1:5). We do not have to know each other personally, for we know and are known by the same Good Shepherd (John 10:11-28). We do not have to look alike, for by grace we are clothed in the same Lord and Savior (Galatians 3:27). We do not have to come from the same place, for we are a holy nation (1 Peter 2:9) We do not have to come from the same family, for we are part of God’s family (Romans 8:15). “We’re just brother and sister in Christ.” Enough said!

Missing The Greater

Neal Thurman
19 Nov 2017

The Thanksgiving holiday has a special charm to me. It is not commercialized like some other days of celebration. It promotes family and togetherness and the simple concept of being thankful. Of course, I recognize that sometimes “family” means headaches and “togetherness” has its own unique form of stress, but these are blessings nonetheless. I also clearly understand that thankfulness should not be exclusive to one day or weekend, but rather a constant and habitual consideration. Still, it is good to be reminded of the need for thanksgiving to our God and Father. Recently, I have sought to observe or perceive what it is that folks are thankful for and what it is that diminishes their thankfulness. Theses observations have led me to conclude that even Christians are far too focused on material possessions, earthly signs of success or achievement, and social or professional status. I’m afraid that modern day Christians have fallen prey to the snare of seeking the things that the unbelieving seek, (1 Timothy 6:10). Are the powerful and famous who have no relationship with their children truly successful? Should the man of great professional achievement and wealth, who decided to sacrifice a relationship with God in order to give himself to his work, look at his life with joy, (Matthew 16:26). I am afraid that many Christians, if asked to identify a successful individual, would choose the wealthy over the faithful. Material possessions are blessings, but are certainly not the most important things in life. My family never had much materially when I was growing up, and there were times when I wished I could have some of the things that other kids had. Yet, I have never, even for one moment, wondered whether my mother and father loved me. I have never, even for one moment, thought that they cared for anything, except the Lord, more than me. I have come to realize how rare this is. They taught me to love the Lord more than myself. They taught me to be respectful and considerate of others regardless of their status, ethnicity, or position. They taught me that it was better to suffer loss than to take advantage. They taught me that doing good was its own reward, especially when only God and I know about it. The world can keep its wealth, I choose their love! I will be a success if I follow their teachings. This is even more true with God. We are loved by God beyond what words can tell, (Romans 5:8, 2 Corinthians 9:15). He provides us with teaching that if followed will bring about great success, (Matthew 7:21). The apostles rejoiced when they suffered in the name of Jesus, (Acts 5:41). Paul counted worldly status and notoriety as rubbish to gain Christ, (Philippians 4:3-8). Jesus said that he who overcomes will be given power over the nations, (Revelation 2:26). Brethren, when we bow to give thanks to God, it is fine to be thankful for our material blessing, but let us not miss the greater. Let us be thankful to God for those things that really matter. Those things that shape and change lives! Remember to always give thanks for that which will go beyond this earthly life!

Not In Kind

Neal Thurman
12 Nov 2017

Another tragic event within our borders has shaken our sense of peace and security. This is especially true when heinous violence invades places of worship, for it shatters the image of a safe haven when seeking to worship God. In the sensibility of our minds, some places and events are supposed to be off-limits to violence, hatred, and villainy. When this view of safety is disrupted, it leaves us confused and unsure. Following such events, we are left to ask, “Why?” No reasonable answers are available for this question. This fact leaves a deep sense of frustration for we cannot understand how anyone could commit such acts. Truth be known, there is no reasonable consideration as to why someone or a group would maliciously take the lives of innocent people. The only answer is that sometimes men are truly evil. Once we recognize the inability for understanding, we turn our attention to what we should now do. Some will become overwhelmed by fear of future events, while others will consider recompense and retaliation. The exasperation of confusion and frustration can lead to obsession and adjustment to one’s own moral compass as to what is appropriate action to be taken. These reactions may be considered reasonable by common human beings, but Christianity calls for a different response from God’s people. First, Christians are not to be diminished by fear. Paul wrote to Timothy, “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind,” (2 Timothy 1:7). Paul would write to Corinthian Christians, “We are hard-pressed on every side, yet not crushed; we are perplexed, but not in despair; 9 persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed,” (2 Corinthians 4:8-9). God’s people must proceed with hope and faith. Second, Christians must not give place to hatred or a will to return harm for harm. Jesus said, “But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you…” (Matthew 5:44). Paul wrote of the apostles, “Being reviled, we bless; being persecuted, we endure; 13 being defamed, we entreat,” (1 Corinthians 4:12-13). It should be the purpose of God’s people to do good to all men, (Galatians 6:10). Let us as a people, the people of God, not to be broken of spirit and heart. But rather let us stand in the face of evil and act as beacons of light in the midst of darkness. Thus, overcoming evil with good as Paul called for in Romans 12:21. Let us not respond in kind.

Consequence of Truthful Words

Neal Thurman
5 Nov 2017

It would seem reasonable to assume that speaking the truth would be appreciated by all and that doing so would bring one admirations and respect. Yet, we all know and the Bible confirms that this is not the case. In fact, the scriptures show us that serious consequences can follow the speaking of righteous truth. Consider a few examples. Mark 6:18 recounts that, John had said to Herod, “It is not lawful for you to have your brother’s wife.” This fact was absolutely true, and Herod did not even argue the fact. Yet, Herodias held it against him and wanted to kill him … (Mark 6:19). But Herod recognized John as a righteous and holy man, and was willing to listen to John’s teaching (Mark 6:20). Once again, no one disputes the truth of John’s words. Still, when Herod, in the foolishness of lust, offered the daughter of Herodias anything she wished (Mark 6:23), John faced the full consequence of speaking truth, as his head was delivered on a silver platter, (Mark 6:27). Acts 7:51-53 Stephen preached, “You stiff-necked and uncircumcised in heart and ears! You always resist the Holy Spirit; as your fathers did, so do you. 52 Which of the prophets did your fathers not persecute? And they killed those who foretold the coming of the Just One, of whom you now have become the betrayers and murderers, 53 who have received the law by the direction of angels and have not kept it.” These things were all true. As with John, the hearers did not dispute the words of Stephen. Rather, they rushed upon him and stoned him to death (Acts 7:57-60). In Acts 22, Paul was able to gain the attention of a mob by speaking to them in Hebrew (Acts 22:2). They listened as recounted his own sin against the Lord and his conversion to Christ. Yet, in Acts 22:21, He revealed that Jesus had sent him to preach to the Gentiles. Acts 22:22 And they listened to him until this word, and then they raised their voices and said, “Away with such a fellow from the earth, for he is not fit to live!” Our intention is by no means to discourage anyone from speaking the truth, but rather to point out that everything comes at a cost, even truth. As our PC world presses into the church, many have decided that truth can be made palatable to everyone’s viewpoint. This is not the case. The truth has never been accepted by all, and will not be today. Unfortunately, sinners would often rather kill the messenger than apply the message to their lives. Yet, if we could ask John, Stephen, and Paul, I would submit to you that each of them would readily accept these same consequences again in order to please the Lord.

Whether Great Or Small

Neal Thurman
29 Oct 2017

Luke 16:10 “He who is faithful in what is least is faithful also in much; and he who is unjust in what is least is unjust also in much.” A week ago Thursday, I officiated a Junior Varsity football game at an area high school. The home team thoroughly dominated the game. With two minutes left to play in the game, the home team scored to go ahead 39 to 0. On the extra point attempt, a visiting team player broke through the line and blocked the kick. Remarkably, the ball kind of pinned itself between his arm and torso. So with ball in hand, he bolted past the kicker, holder, and myself. I groaned because it meant that I had to run the length of field for a defensive 2-point conversion that was meaningless. I started to casually chance the player running by himself, and then a home team player dashed past me. It was the holder, who had been kneeling on one knee at the time of the kick. He chanced his opponent for 88 yards and tackled him at the 2-yard line preventing even irrelevant points from being scored against his team. The game mercifully ended only a few plays later. The supreme effort of the young man was foremost in the thoughts of the other officials and myself as we talked walking back to our cars. The words of Luke 16:10 came to my mind. If this young man was willing to run as hard and fast as he could over the length of the field to prevent points that would have no impact on the outcome of the game, what would he do when it really mattered? I believe we Christians are often guilty of waiting until we think something really matters. We evaluate importance before we decide to expend energy or effort. Perhaps this starts with us aggrandizing those who are able to accomplish a feat that we deem important, while passing over those who tirelessly and faithfully fulfill tasks that go unnoticed until they are left undone. The latter do not work or serve for praise sake, but rather because they can and it is needed. Brethren, we should do what is good and helpful regardless of the circumstance. We should not need knowledge of the score in order to decide on preventing our opponent’s success. We should give full effort whether the situation is great or small! Knowing, he who performs at full capacity in the least of matters will certainly give his all in the great.

Right But Not Easy

Neal Thurman
8 Oct 2017

Perhaps my observation is unique, but it seems as though that which is “Right” is seldom “Easy.” These two things are rarely companions of one another. Thus, we are often forced to make a choice between the two. We should not pretend that this choice is always clear and simple, nor should we assume that making the “Right” choice always leaves one with an immediate sense of satisfaction. Righteous choices can at times place one in awkward or uncomfortable positions with others, some of which are willing to use such discomfort in an effort to influence one’s choice in their favor. In fact, a few will go so far as to suggest that the one choosing the “Right” is actually the person who is the cause the problem or is to be blamed. In Genesis 37:2, Joseph brought a bad report to his father about his brothers, who were sons of Bilhah and Zilpah. The scripture does not elaborate on the situation with the flocks, but it is implied that the sons of Jacob were not conducting themselves properly. Perhaps Jacob asked for Joseph’s report. We do not know. Yet, if the brothers were doing what they should not, the fact that Joseph reported this truth is not what made their actions wrong or unworthy. But Joseph’s brothers hated him. And this hatred was magnified by Jacob’s favoritism, which also was not Joseph’s doing. In Numbers 13, twelves spies were sent into the land of Canaan to spy out the land that God had promised flowed with milk and honey. They found it to be just what God had promised, but ten of the spies said that is was “a land that devours its inhabitants…” (Numbers 13:32). The easy thing for the other two spies would have been to go along, but Joshua and Caleb chose the “Right” and said, “ If the Lord delights in us, then He will bring us into this land and give it to us, ‘a land which flows with milk and honey...Do not fear them,” (Numbers 14:8-9). Verse 10 tells us that the people wanted to stone them to death for their faithful conviction. Contrast Joshua and Caleb with the choice of Aaron with the golden calf in Exodus 32. Aaron chose what was “Easy” and followed the wishes of the people. When Moses returned he would say, “Do not let the anger of my lord become hot. You know the people, that they are set on evil.” (Exodus 32:22). Aaron chose the easy way that was popular with the people, and it ended up costing thousands of lives (Exodus 32:28). We will each have occasions in life to make choices between “Right” and “Easy”. We should always remember that “Right” is seldom easy, and “Easy” is rarely right. Children of God should always choose “Right” simply because it is right!

Is It Really That Complicated?

Neal Thurman
1 Oct 2017

Gazing over the landscape of our nation and society, I am very saddened and quite troubled by what I observe. It seems that in every corner, the purveyors of division are sowing their seed plentifully. Remember the Lord said, “Every kingdom divided against itself is brought to desolation…” (Luke 11:17). The agents of greed and selfishness follow close behind in order to water the planted seed. Radical accusations and generalities are being made with vitriol toward anyone with whom disagreement occurs. And much to my chagrin, hatred seems to be winning the day! I do not pretend to fully understand the plight of those whose heritage and ethnicity is different from my own, and by no means to wish to minimize the suffering or struggle of others. Nor will I suggest that I have all the answers to fix what is broken or mend that which has been wounded. Yet, I know Someone who does! This fact leads me to ponder if these issues of great turmoil are really all that complicated. Of course, complication and simplicity should not be confused with difficulty and ease. Still, imagine if we all were willing to submit to the One true source of truth. Could we find resolution to those things that trouble our society? Based upon the various ways that people have chosen to live, an argument has been raised about recognizing and identifying a plethora of genders. The offered distinctions are quite complicated. With God, the answer is much more simple. “So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them,” (Genesis 1:27). Our societal practice for conflict resolution has become yelling and screaming our views as loud as possible, while cursing our opponent (enemy), in an effort to allow only one viewpoint. Then we get on social media platforms to berate and belittle our opponents. This makes solving anything very complicated. With God, things are much more simple, and effective. “Therefore, whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them,” (Matthew 7:12). “...let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath;” (James 1:19). “A soft answer turns away wrath,” (Proverbs 15:1). “But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you,” (Matthew 5:44). Man complicates most everything. God’s simple plan brings peace! “When a man’s ways please the Lord, He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him,” (Proverbs 16:7). In the end, it is just not that complicated.

Even When We Do Not Understand

Neal Thurman
24 Sep 2017

Trust can manifest itself in many forms. We might a persons ability to fulfill a task because we have observed such on some previous occasion. We may also trust one to be truthful because they have exhibited the characteristics of integrity. Some may even extend trust based upon the fact that the person agrees with one’s view of how things ought to be. (By the way, this is how many people are misled by smooth talkers such as politicians and the like.) Yet, the highest forms of trust are realized when, based upon their character, we follow or obey even though we cannot see or understand the outcome. When we place our hand in theirs and allow them to take us where we cannot see, we truly trust them. We trust they will take us where and how we need to go. This level of trust is hard. The young child needs to trust that Mom and Dad are doing what is best in the long run, even when he does not like the process. The foot soldier needs to be able to trust that his generals and commander are planning and supplying directions that we bring about victory at the lowest possible cost. And the child of God must fully trust that God will do and command that which is best. This is true even when we don’t understand the why? In 1 Kings 17, Elijah, having just proclaimed a drought on Israel, came to widow woman and asked her for a morsel of bread. The poor widow replied that she had no bread but only enough flour and oil for her and her son to have one last meal. And Elijah said to her, “Do not fear; go and do as you have said, but make me a small cake from it first, and bring it to me; and afterward make some for yourself and your son.” (1 Kings 17:13) Elijah went on to proclaim that the flour and oil would not run out until the drought was ended (1 Kings 17:14). I would like to suggest that the widow did not understand how these things could be. Yet, the scriptures tell us, “So she went away and did according to the word of Elijah;” (1 Kings 17:15). She obeyed the man of God even though she could not see how this could be. This wasn’t something she could test or try out. It was a do-or-do-not situation. She chose to trust in Elijah. It was the right decision to make (cf. 1 King 17:15ff). Let us each ask self, “Am I willing to follow and obey the Lord even when I do not understand?” We will if we trust!

The Urgency Of Preaching

Mike Riley
27 Aug 2017

Once a preacher was invited to address the inmates of a large prison. The warden showed him around, and they came to the chapel. It was a large auditorium seating fifteen hundred. The preacher noticed that two seats on the front row were draped in black. The warden said, “The two men who will occupy those seats tomorrow are under sentence of death. On Monday they go to the electric chair!” The minister asked, “Will this be the last service they will ever attend?” “Yes it is,” came the reply. “Your sermon will be the last one they will ever hear.” The preacher went home, took out the sermon he had prepared, reviewed it, and tore it up. “This sermon is of no use,” he said. “It does not meet the need.” Then falling on his knees he prayed, “Oh, God, give me a message for those two men who will be sitting in those draped chairs.” What would you have done? What sermon would you have preached? Those In Draped Chairs Every time a preacher preaches and teaches God’s Word, there are people present who are sitting in draped chairs! Many are they that are lost in sin and cannot find their way to the Lord and salvation. The whole world is a searching, desperate world of indecision and the church needs to feel this urgency both at home and abroad. We must teach at home, and we must take part in preaching God’s Word throughout the world. Jesus teaches us in Matthew 28:19-20, “Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world. Amen.” Ways To Proclaim The Gospel The following are suggestions as to what we can do to proclaim the saving gospel of Christ: Invite someone to worship with you. Give a friend a Gospel tract or tape. Encourage the church to be involved in mission work. Invite someone to study with you. Enroll your neighbors in a Bible correspondence course. Open your home for a group Bible study. Pray for the lost — by name. Strive to put on the “real spirit” of Christ. Subscribe to a gospel paper, read it, then pass it on to a friend. Conclusion Christ said in John 4:35, “Say not ye, There are yet four months, and then cometh harvest? behold, I say unto you, Lift up your eyes, and look on the fields; for they are white already to harvest”. Let us as followers of Christ, “Lift up our eyes, look on the fields, and see the urgency of preaching the saving message of Christ!” (2 Timothy 4:2).

Pressing the Reset Button?

Neal Thurman
20 Aug 2017

A dear sister recently told me that sometimes she wishes that she could just press the reset button. This stuck with me and I pondered the precepts of such a comment. A reset takes one back to a set point in which all functions were operating properly. The reset then instantly eliminates any errors or disturbances that happened in the interim so that everything is able work on a clean slate. My sister was, of course, referring to those times when, for some reason or another, a disturbance arises in our relationships with one another. We know the Bible tells us of God’s intentions, “I will be their God, and they shall be My people...For I will forgive their iniquity, and their sin I will remember no more,” (Jeremiah 31:33-34). God has the ability to do a complete reset. He has the amazing power to completely remove memories from His thoughts. Yet, He did not impart this ability on us in creation. We must find a way to overcome obstacles of heartache and guilt without the luxury of a reset. Since we cannot reset, we have to work at cleaning the slate and finding desired functionality. This effort seldom comes easily and I would suggest that it never happens accidentally. This is true in most circumstance regardless of which side the fence one stands. Yet, we should be motivated by the desire of the Lord. Matthew 5:23-24 tells us that the Lord desires that we seek forgiveness and reconciliation with brethren. In the same sermon, Jesus expresses His strong desire for us to grant our forgiveness , (Matthew 6:14-15). The Lord is also plain in describing His wish that this be a continual effort (Matthew 18:21-22; Luke 17:3-4). Thus, Jesus has an expectation for us to work at it. I like to think of it as putting something in the rear-view mirror. We continue on, and for a little while it lingers in our gaze into the mirror, but then disappears from sight. Do not slow down, let it disappear. Image that you are driving and another driver does something reckless, almost causing you to have an accident. First, you may be frighten, then angry, and finally relieved that it was an “almost.” The next few miles your mind may be filled with the memory of that fear, but as the scenery changes your focus drifts to other and better things. Now, if we get on the phone to tell all our friends about the excitement, it is going to stay fresh in our minds. This is an understandable reaction, but it inhibits our ability to let it fade in the mirror. The same is true in our relationships. The things we think and talk about will remain fresh. Talking about a kindness that was shown or the great work that was done will keep these things in mind. Talking about frustration, disappointment, and hurt caused by ourselves or other will likewise keep those things in the forefront of thought. We may not have the good sister’s reset button, but with a dash of diligence, a pinch of humility, and a whole bunch of brotherly love we can set the way straight and smooth out the bumps. Maybe we could press the love button, instead! “And above all things have fervent love for one another, for ‘love will cover a multitude of sins,’” (1 Peter 4:8).

Make Sure They Are Missed

Neal Thurman
13 Aug 2017

The fatal car accident that occurred on Loop 49 last Saturday afternoon has left me with a surreal feeling that has lingered in my mind. The 20 year-old man who lost his life had only a few minutes before his death been in attendance at a football officials clinic of which I was in attendance. The vehicle he drove was similar in model to my own and I traveled in the other direction on Loop 49 a short time later. I did not know the young man. To my knowledge, I never even made his acquaintance. Yet, the thought of this tragic event has lingered with me. Obviously, we think of James 4’s description of human life as a vapor that appears for a little while and vanishes away. This is not the lingering thought in my mind, but rather that he never reached home. As stated, I do not know of his family situation, but I would suppose that someone was expecting him to return home on the hot and sunny Saturday afternoon. What a disturbing wait, followed by a life-altering realization! For them, this day will forever be a marked moment in time. My heart aches for them. Still, there are others in the world, who knew and liked this young man, who yet unaware of his tragic end. These have fallen out-of-touch in his life. One day, at a class reunion or ballgame, they will ask, “I wonder what ever happen to…” They will be shocked to learn of his death, but will proceed with their lives unaffected. Their thoughts will be sad, but he will not be missed by them. I am well aware of the fact that this is simply the nature of life on earth. People come and go through our lives and we often lose touch. It is natural and unavoidable. Yet, as I consider our immediate spiritual family, I am afraid it happens too easily. The poignant question was asked in a recent meeting about those who no longer worship with us: “Do you know why they’re not here anymore?” If we can’t answer that question, then it is likely that we do not truly miss them. We might miss the number on the board or dollars in the collection, but we do not genuinely miss the person. We might say that we do not know them very well, but we do not have to be best friends to miss someone. This is not to mention that we could work at knowing one another better. The fact that they are relatively new or they sit on the other side of the building are really not very good explanations for not noticing their absence. I, like most of you, am guilty of allowing my circle of attention and perception to remain too small. In so doing, I failed some of my brethren by not missing them as I should when they disappear. I pray that the Lord will help to grow in this area of spiritual development. Brethren, let us make every effort to keep relationships and personal knowledge alive and updated. We are not going to be buddies with everyone spiritual sibling, but let us give all diligence to see that no brother-in-Christ disappears without even being missed.

Surprise Opportunity

Neal Thurman
9 Jul 2017

Sometimes life can be full of surprises. For instance, I receive a text from Marco at 11:59 pm, July 4th stating that Brother Jason Sparks was suffering with a health condition that would prevent him from fulfilling his speaking assignment for our Summer Series on July 5th. Surprise! Just a little news to facilitate a good nights sleep. This was not a welcome surprise, but these things happen and we will move along doing our best. Discussing such unforeseen events often leads us to reference James 4:14 “...whereas you do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away.” This is reasonable because we do not know the day will hold. Yet, as we consider these unknown or surprising events, we generally focus on negative or unsettling surprises. Of course, we Christians need to be prepared for the hard curveballs of life, but we should also recognize that opportunities can come in the form of surprises as well. In the case mentioned above, it was a surprise that I would need to quickly prepare a sermon and it likely will not be as strong as the prepared lesson that Brother Sparks would have brought or even what I would have done with more time. Yet, I will have the opportunity to address a topic I initiated in just the way that I envisioned it. Surprising opportunities to learn can come our way. In Acts 8 as the eunuch sat in his chariot reading from the book of Isaiah, a man he did not know asked, “Do you understand what you are reading?” (Acts 8:30). What a fortunate and surprising opportunity for the eunuch, and he was ready to take advantage. We can also experience surprising opportunities to teach. When Peter went up to a housetop to pray in Acts 10:9, he had no idea that God would call him to carry the gospel message of saving grace to the house of a Gentile. Yet, what an opportunity when Cornelius had gathered his whole household to hear God’s holy word from the lips of Peter (Acts 10:33). David did not expect to be slaying a giant in the defense of God’s honor (1 Samuel 17). Esther did not expect the opportunity to save her people from destruction (Esther 3ff). Joseph did not expect the opportunity to interpret Pharaoh’s dream and rise to power (Genesis 41). Yet, all of these surprising opportunities arose, and each of these individuals took advantage of he or her surprise. Brethren, we will be surprised from time to time. Some of those will be unwelcome and a few may even be bad. Yet, opportunities also come by surprise. Let us endeavor to be prepared seize such opportunities for the cause of Christ.

Starving in the Midst of a Feast

Neal Thurman
25 Jun 2017

Why do so many of us struggle with living faithful lives of righteousness? We want to recognize that Christian living is at times quite difficult. It always requires a measure of sacrifice and often means overcoming suffering. Paul spoke of the Apostles saying, “To the present hour we both hunger and thirst, and we are poorly clothed, and beaten, and homeless,” (1 Corinthians 4:11). Thus, it is not easy, but these were faithful and strong. Why is there such a throng today who struggle, wander, and faint? Many reasons or causes may exist, but one prominent cause is that many are malnourished for the word. This is particularly saddening in our culture. We have unprecedented access to and availability of copies of God’s holy word. With little effort we can find one who loves the truth with whom to study. Effective study guides are readily available for little or no cost. Yet, many of us are starving to death in the midst of a great feast of saving truth. Parents, teachers, and preachers can prepare the feast and put it on the plate, but it is beyond their abilities to make us eat. We must have the desire and willingness to consume what is set before us. We need the attitude of Jeremiah who wrote, “Your words were found, and I ate them, and Your word was to me the joy and rejoicing of my heart; for I am called by Your name, O Lord God of hosts,” (Jeremiah 15:26). The prophet fed on the word of God and was filled with joy and rejoicing. Too many today nibble at the crust of the bread and find certain things (restrictions and responsibilities) hard to swallow, but do not feed on the whole counsel of God in order to receive the rejoicing of the heart. Is your spiritual life shaken and unstable? Is your Christian life less than fulfilling and lacking in comfort? Maybe it is because your spirit is starving. Are you failing to nourish your hungry spirit? There is only one proper food for recovery. No magic spiritual energy bar exist. You must be filled with the sumptuous word of truth. Beloved, why not cease the struggle of life and feed on the word that is able to save your soul (James 1:21) experiencing the rejoicing of your heart?

Seeing In The Dark

Neal Thurman
11 Jun 2017

It was a bit late on Saturday when I completed my prep work for registration on Sunday and the week ahead. I went to the bathhouse to brush my teeth and remove my contacts. The cabin was dark when I entered and I attempted to find things in the dark to not disturb the others sleeping in the cabin. Unsuccessful, I tried use the glow from my phone. I was puzzled by the fuzzy image viewed in the dim illumination. After flashing myself in the face, I reached my hand to my face and realized I had failed to put on my glasses. Completing this task solved the problem. Yet, when the phone timed out and the room went dark, I still could not see anything. As I laid down on my luxurious camp bed, I pondered the fact that when all was dark corrected vision had no affect. I did not matter how well I could see when it was dark. Yes, I realize that devices exist that allow one to basically see in the dark, but that is the same thing as turning on the light. All-in-all visual accuracy, whether natural or enhanced, is essentially useless when standing in the darkness. Consider this from a spiritual or Christian stand point. Paul wrote, “For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light,” (Ephesians 5:8). Those without Christ are totally and hopelessly wrapped in darkness, but putting on Jesus Christ (Galatians 3:27) they can be transformed into light. Peter writes, “But you are a chosen generation, a holy nation, His own special people, that you may proclaim the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light,” (1 Peter 2:9). He called us out of darkness to be his own special people of light. We could not see in the dark, but God called us to the illumination of vision. Yet, what if, as Christian, we go stand in the dark? What if we surround ourselves with the people and things of darkness? Understand, I am not referring to those who take up the sword of light and venture into the darkness in a effort to save souls. I am considering those who surround themselves with worldly people engaging in worldly activities in worldly places. Some may suggest that their faith is strong enough to withstand temptations and influences. I would suggests those folks read what Peter had say in Matthew 26:33-35 and consider how that worked out. Paul wrote, “Do not be deceived: ‘Evil companions corrupt good moral,’” (1 Corinthians 15:33). Peter wrote, “For if, after they have escaped the pollution of the world through the knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ, they are again entangled in them and overcome, the latter end is worse for them than the beginning,” (2 Peter 2:20). The scriptures reveal to us that no matter how well one might see with his eyes or his mind if he stands in darkness, he cannot see. The vision cannot simply be corrected. Rather, we must turn on the light of life so we can see in the dark.

Universe Might Just Be a Simulation?

Eric Lyons
21 May 2017

Dr. Neil deGrasse Tyson is one of America’s most well-known evolutionary astro-physicists. He has worked as the Director of the Hayden Planetarium in New York City for two decades. He also frequently appears on television shows such as The Colbert Report and Real Time with Bill Maher. Though Dr. Tyson has made some oppressive comments regarding theism (and theist) in the past, he is not an atheist; Tyson is agnostic: he admits that he is “someone who doesn’t know” and “hasn’t really seen evidence for” God, but “is prepared to embrace the evidence” if it is ever presented. Interestingly, Dr. Tyson recently made some outlandish comments at the 2016 Isaac Asimov Memorial Debate at the American Museum of Natural History about the nature of the Universe. According to Tyson, “the likelihood of the universe being a simulation ‘may be very high’” News organizations reported that Tyson indicated “it’s not too hard to imagine that some other creature our there is far smarter than us.” Perhaps we’re just “some sort of alien simulation.” Tyson went so far as to say, “It is easy for me to imagine that everything in our lives is just the creation of some other entity for their entertainment. I’m saying the day we learn that it is true, I will be the only one in the room saying, I’m not surprised.” Isn’t it baffling what evolutionary agnostics and atheists will believe and what they won’t (or don’t) believe? Dr. Tyson is a very educated scientist who seems to have no problem imaging that god-like aliens made our Universe for their pleasure despite the complete lack of evidence for such a belief. Yet, at he same time, Tyson refuses to believe in God because he does not believe there is enough evidence to come to the conclusion that God actually created the Universe for His own glory (Psalm 19:1-4; Isaiah 43:7 and to be inhabited by His human creatures (Isaiah 45:18), who are made in His image (Genesis 1:26-27). One thing that Dr. Tyson did allude to that everyone should freely admit based upon the evidence: “It is easy for me to imagine that everything in our lives is just the creation of some other entity.” In truth, Creation makes sense. “For every house is built by someone, but He who built all things is God,” (Hebrews 3:4). The heavens declare the glory” of the eternal, omnipotent Creator (Psalm 19:1), nor some supposed alien civilization (who, in turn, would need an explanation for their existence if they really did exist). Sadly, men such as Dr Tyson seem so open to the idea of “super aliens, yet not to the Supernatural Creator, Who will judge our actions or lack thereof at the end of time (Ecclesiastes 12:13-14).

Gutter Attention

Neal Thurman
14 May 2017

This past Monday, I took the time to clean out the gutters on our house. It is not a fun or even satisfying job. Perhaps this is why the job was so overdue. Of course, it could be that I was hoping to get the job done by one of the two young men who help me to share my income with institutions of higher education. Whatever the reason, the gutters had not received the attention needed over the last few months. This is not good considering our neighbors large pine trees regularly deposit pine needles on our house. These needles wad together and restrict the flow of rainwater, especially in corners and at down pipes. I started in an area that had been a problem area at times. I felt better about my procrastination when I found very little debris. My satisfaction was short lived as I moved around a corner found a nasty gob of needles and mud that almost filled the gutter to its brim. I moved around the house and found several of these restrictive clumps. In two areas, the gutter was completely clogged. Much to my chagrin, I found that water had gotten behind the gutter in these two places and damaged the fascia board. A lack of maintenance had now become a need for repair. I began to lecture myself on the fact that careless disregard for an unenjoyable but necessary task had now turned into a need for costly repairs. It was not the gutters’ fault. They simply hang in place trying to do what it is they do. With proper attention, they effectively do their job of carrying rainwater, and even small debris, away from protected areas. At the conclusion of the lecture, I began to ponder, “Do we have gutters around our lives, apparatus to carry harmful debris away from the foundation of our lives?” It was an interesting thought that grabbed my conscious mind as I completed the undesirable task. We must live in a world that is full of contaminants and wicked rubble. Jesus prayed for His disciples, “I do not pray that You should take them out of the world, but that You should keep them from the evil one,” (John 17:15). Paul wrote of avoiding the sexually immoral, “Yet I certainly did mean with the sexually immoral people of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or idolaters, since then you would need to go out of the world,” (1 Corinthians 5:10). We are going to come into contact with corruption and contamination, and whether we like it or not, this often leaves a bit of undesirable residue. It may not be very much at any one time, but contacting filth will make one dirty. This muck and grime left in place will eventually build up and cause real and costly damage. Regular maintenance will keep everything in check and our spiritual gutters flowing free. One may ask what maintenance is needed. Regular and consistent study of God’s word keeps all aspects of the Christian life in working order and performing effectively. The other means is significant contact with the faithful. Their righteousness will help to scrub off worldly contaminants. This contact is not sitting down in the same church building a couple of times a week. We need to have relationships with one another to help one another. Let’s maintain our spiritual house and avoid difficult future repairs!

Precious In His Sight

Neal Thurman
16 Apr 2017

It would seem that God knew that we would have days when we yearn for loved ones we could no longer reach and would not understand why they had to go. He knew we would have times when we would not know what to do in order to soothe the aching of our hearts full of sorrow. We know that He knew because he left us special words of comfort such as: “Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints.” Psalms 116:15 “Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on.” “Yes,” says the Spirit, “that they may rest from their labors and their works follow them.” Revelation 14:13 I am sad today. This morning I learned that one of the most precious creatures to ever grace this planet had passed from this life. Upon learning the news, I was flooded with a plethora of emotion. I rejoice for her victory, but my heart is heavy with sorrow. I know that it is selfish, but I wish I could have just one more talk with her. I wish I could see her smile once more. I crave the soothing comfort of her gentle voice sharing tender encouraging words. Just once more, I would like to receive her words of wisdom. Alas, I cannot. Rare indeed is the one of a pure heart, kind and gentle of character, and genuine goodness of spirit. Our beloved sister, Bennie Bynum, was all of these things and more. Regardless of the setting or who was present, where Miss Bennie was there was compassion and thoughtfulness. She patiently listened to our mourning, our complaints, our frustrations, and even our rants. She offered only comfort and understanding while never stoking the flames of our emotions. She listened to our anecdotes, our tells of family adventure, and our personal achievements. She willingly rejoiced in our satisfaction and shared in our exuberance with a smile. She listened with tenderheartedness to our most personal struggles and heartaches, and those private moments would always be kept private. She was truly special! She was a blessing to all who were graced with her presence. I thank God that Miss Bennie passed through my life, for she touched my life and made me better. Through my tears, I struggle to find the words to adequately describe her and the life she lived. So, I will lean on the words of our Lord. “Well done, good and faithful servant!”

Letting Him Have It

Neal Thurman
2 Apr 2017

Isaiah 40:31 But those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint. Philippians 4:6-7 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. 1 Peter 5:6-7 Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you. This life that we have been given is filled with many days of joy, but this same life is often disturbed by sorrow, suffering, and heartache. This certainly is not breaking news to any of us who have lived a few years. Sin, along with the weakness and even wickedness of man make heartache nearly inevitable for each one of us. The truth of these facts is readily accepted and understood by most of us. Recognition is not the primary problem. The challenge lies in our ability to move forward from the suffering, leaving it behind and depowering its influence in our lives. Many scriptures, such as those above, offer the reassurance that our Heavenly Father has made provision for our care and peace in this life and one to that is to come. Intellectually, we can recognize these truths as well when we are in study and seeking biblical understanding. Yet, that intellectual exercise does not always translate into peace of heart. Too often, we try to give something to the Lord, but we cannot completely release our grip. It is not easy, but full trust requires letting go of control. The Lord can take care of those things beyond our ability to effect, but we gain the provided peace only when we let Him have it. It is easy to say that we have cast our cares on the Lord. It is not so easy to actually do so, but we need to find the way. Part of this is realizing whether we have done so. If that heartache is right at the surface of our conscientiousness, we have not let Him have it. If the rush emotion floods our minds at the mention of an event or person, we have not let Him have it. If the heartache invades our peaceful moments of quiet contemplation, we have not let him have it. This is not easy, but our God and Father cares for us and yearns to bring us comfort and peace. Even with all of His might, power, and love, He cannot force peace upon us. May we let Him have all of our cares!

Life Is Too Short

Neal Thurman
26 Mar 2017

Events of the past week brought a situation into question that caused me to be asked what my actions would be. Part of my answer included the statement, “Life is too short…” The conclusion of the statement is irrelevant because it did not provide an answer, but what about those words, “life is too short?” We hear this statement attached with several conclusions. Life is too short to go through in uncomfortable shoes. Life is too short to waste worrying about what may never happen. Life is too short to live with regret. Even, life is too short wait on dessert. Many, many more are used, but what does it really mean? First, it proclaims the limits of life’s duration. This implies a conclusion or an ending point. Of course, this is a scriptural principle. Hebrews 9:27 “And as it is appointed for men to die once, but after this the judgment.” The reality of life’s end should be recognized and remembered by every person. This should offer motivation to act on opportunities because no changes or growth can be achieved after that end (Ecclesiastes 9:10). Second, it states that the time in life is minimal. Thus, the moments of that time should be seen as precious. The brevity of life suggests that it should never be treated flippantly or frivolously. James 4:13-14 “Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will[g] go to such and such a city, spend a year there, buy and sell, and make a profit”; 14 whereas you do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away.” Finally, it suggests that life’s time can be wasted. It can be burned up and squandered with interests or activities that have little or no merit. The scriptures tells that some words are idle (Matthew 12:31) and that even worship can be vain (Matthew 15:9). Thus, the merit of life’s activities should be given serious consideration. All consideration being given there is a conclusion that should be drawn. Life is too short to live with a faithful relationship with Jesus!

Justifying A Pathway to Hell

Neal Thurman
19 Mar 2017

“What difference does it make?” “Who is it going to hurt?” “No one even needs to know.” Have you ever found yourself having such a conversation with self? Or maybe you have heard friends or co-workers offer such explanations for the actions they have taken or intend to take. If so, you certainly not unique. Justifying explanations for inappropriate behavior is neither new or uncommon. 2 Kings 5 is famous for the story of Naaman, the Syrian commander who suffered with the scourge of leprosy and his obedience to instructions that brought about a miraculous healing. Yet, the need for obedience to God’s word is not the only lesson to be learned in this chapter. Naaman was very excited with being cleansed of leprosy, so he offered Elisha gift of appreciation and urge him to take it. Elisha refuse the gift, (2 Kings 5:15-16). Yet, another person was privy to this conversation. His name was Gehazi, and he was a servant of the man of God. Gehazi had not only seen what the Lord had done for Naaman, but he had seen Naaman’s willingness to give Elisha a valuable gift. Soon after Elisha’s refusal, Gehazi begins to rationalize and justify what was running through his mind. “Look, my master has spared Naaman this Syrian, while not receiving from his hands what he brought; but as the Lord lives, I will run after him and take something from him.” (2 Kings 5:20). Based on his own rationalization of the situation, he justifies pursuing Naaman and taking a gift in the Elisha’s name and hides it in a house. Can we not hear Gehazi saying, “It’s only fair.” “Naaman had already planned to give the gift.” “Elisha doesn’t want the gift.” “What would it hurt for me to have the gift?” Justification: Check. Truth be known, Gehazi was terribly hurt by him taking the gift and lying about it. His justification had no effect on the truth of his actions and consequences that were to follow. Based on the information we have, we can conclude that Gehazi suffered to the point of death with leprosy. These principles are just as true today as they were for Gehazi. Rationalization does not change the truth and justification does not remove the consequences of sin. The hope of eternal life calls for us to walk in the light of obedience to God. For if we are not careful and focused on what is important, we just might justify a pathway to hell.

Beyond The Decorations

Neal Thurman
12 Mar 2017

Flesh flowers all around, brightly colored bows, matching tuxes and dresses, sprigs of baby’s breath and tulle draped on anything not moving, a wedding must be near. The last ten days have been quite busy for a few of us. Over three thousand lights were hung from the ceiling and walls. Some eight thousand square feet of tulle were draped, wrapped and hung about the two buildings. Hundreds of pictures were sorted for display. Several craft projects were completed. Many multilayered bows were constructed and displayed. Carefully planned table treatments were arranged. Delicate flower arrangements were executed to offer the finishing touch. Hopefully, this fruit of this labor was appreciated by all who were able to see it, but those of us what put it all together are pretty proud of the way it turned out. We are certainly biased, but it looked pretty good. These decorations required a significant amount of effort, but if it made this memorable day a little more special for the bride and groom, along with their families, it was worth every bit of effort. Yet, when all is said and done, those decorations just do not matter that much. Forty-eight hours after the ceremony the decorations were all gone and packed away. They may have brought a bit of joy, but their part was very short-lived. Twinkling lights will not light the way for a couple to pass side-by-side. Aromatic flowers will not insure the sweet-smelling aroma of happiness in a home. Bright white dresses and bows will not maintain the purity of a relationship. These things, beautiful as they may be, are just for show. The things that really matter start after the wedding ceremony. Will the bride and groom become a godly wife and husband? God intends for them to truly become one, (Genesis 2:24). He intends for them to grow together not only in life but in service to Him. The godly woman, who walks before her husband with submission and chaste conduct while showing her fear for God, is of great benefit to her husband and her marriage, (1 Peter 3:1-2). In like manner, the husband, who upholds his wife with honor, edifies her life and opens their prayers to God, (1 Peter 3:7). The wife should never do anything that would diminish the image or reputation of her husband, (Proverbs 31:11,23). The husband should follow the pattern of Jesus and love his wife as to exalt her and lift her up to new heights. The wife should be a “crown of her husband…” (Proverbs 12:4) The husband of a godly wife see her a gift from the Lord, (Proverbs 19:14). Such a relationship should bring joy, (Proverbs 5:18) and it should be appreciated and nurtured by both parties. May our new couple be blessed as they learn the ways of marriage! May we all walk in the ways of the Lord in all our relationships!

Must Be Cursed

Neal Thurman
5 Feb 2017

Sometimes things just do not work out as we intended. I feel compelled to offer an apology to the congregation for the PowerPoint malfunction during Sunday mornings lesson. I was unaware that the malfunction was being projected, and I am sorry for any distraction from worship this may have caused. This was very frustrating to me because I had given particular attention, time, and effort to the presentation. Adding to my frustration was the fact that Monday morning I tested the presentation connected to the system and it worked flawlessly. Frustrations like this can cause a person to say things like, “These things always happen to me!” or “I must be cursed!” Exasperated, a throng of unfortunate events are quickly conjured into the mind. The desired job went to some else, maybe less qualified. The best team had its worst outing to lose the championship. The market charges upward just after stocks were cleared from a personal portfolio. Disease or injury seem to constantly impact life. (My personal tormentor) Every street light turns red when one is in a hurry or running late! Is there a curse? First of all, I do not believe curses exist, except for perhaps that of our own bad judgement. This is not to say that misfortune does not touch anyone’s life, because obviously it does. Sometimes bad or unfortunate things happen without any misstep or wrongdoing by the one affected. These occasions do have a way of sticking out in one’s memory. Yet, do these events accurately testify to the real life of a person? Personally, I have had a few blessing to go along with my misbehaving presentation, multiple knee injuries, flying mop-handle to the face, occasional heartache, and red-light curse. I was blessed to grow up in a home where I was loved, nurtured, and taught the way of God. I am blessed to have a wonderful wife that I do not deserve, who builds me up and keeps me properly grounded. I have been blessed to watch my healthy sons grow into righteous young men, who I am proud to have wear my name. I have been blessed to know brothers and sisters in Christ who remind me that the loving kindness that God intended for people is still shining bright in the midst of darkness. Most of all, Jesus Christ died for me, giving me absolute power over my eternal destiny! All-in-all, life is awfully good for me. Job said, “Shall we indeed accept good from God, and shall we not accept adversity?” (Job 2:10). Paul told of beatings, threats, and attempts to take his life in 2 Corinthians 11:24-28. Yet, this same man would write, “Therefore we do not lose heart. Even though our outward man is perishing, yet the inward man is being renewed day by day. 17 For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, is working for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory..” 2 Corinthians 4:16-17. I will not suggest that anyone’s suffering is not real or significant. Still, I will say that neither you or I is cursed, but rather we are blessed. Things may not always go the way we would choose, but victory is in the end! “...the glory that will be revealed in us.” (Romans 8:18). Brothers and sisters, we are a blessed people!

It’s All About Timing

Neal Thurman
29 Jan 2017

The days of December are being crossed from the calendar once again. This means another birthday draws near for me. In a week, I will turn 600 months old. Only a few days later, we will bid farewell to the Year of Our Lord 2016. Some will bid her a fond farewell with full intention of holding her events dear in memory. Others will gladly close the door on her, hoping to isolate themselves from the recollections of pain, suffering, and loss. Personally, the year was marked by the many funerals I officiated or attended, the graduation of my youngest son, and dealing with my family being scattered about East Texas. Reflecting on the days since we opened the new calendar, I realize that 2016 was not boring or uneventful, whether for good or bad. Our nation was treated to day-to-day updates on the most contentious and belligerent presidential campaign in recent memory. Leaders of one political party sought to undermine the candidacy of their nominee, while a candidate who was cheated by his own party then endorsed the beneficiary of the cheating. This culminated in perhaps the greatest upset in the history American politics. Yet, the easing of contention is nowhere in sight. It was also disturbing to learn that the IRS had been used to target and disrupt the workings of politically conservative groups, specifically the Tea Party. Interestingly, such information did not seem to damage the public image of those responsible and in charge. Perhaps those are the folks that are from the government and are here to help. On the lighter side, the longest curse in professional sports was dramatically broken. Another sports city that had seen fifty years of disappointment was rewarded with a championship. And the favored son of all professional sports was able to ride into the sunset as a champion. Considering the outrageous, the great controversy of the year revolved around which public restroom a person should use. The President of the United States demanded that public schools allow the usage of all restrooms without regard to gender. Major retailers, such as Target, implemented the policy of allowing customers of both genders to use the gender specific restroom of their choice. Professional sports leagues, NCAA conferences, and major entertainment producers all removed events from North Carolina because the state had passed a law dictating the specific gender usage of public restrooms. In regard to these, let Christians receive the words of Peter, “Save yourselves from this crooked and perverse generation,” (Acts 2:40). What will the year before us hold? There is no way to know, but we can get good advice for moving forward. “So now, brethren, I commend you to God and to the word of His grace, which is able to build you up and give you an inheritance among all those who are sanctified,” (Acts 20:35). Let me say “Merry Christmas” to all. And may God bless you in each step and each moment of New Year!

A New Beginning

Neal Thurman
15 Jan 2017

A number of years ago, events and circumstances left the University congregation without an eldership. Those circumstances were beyond the ability of any current member to change. The congregation and her members have been affected by this lack of scripturally appointed leadership. Some of those days were difficult and a few were chaotic. Yet, we have seen brothers and sisters rise to the call of service in these days of necessity. Those who chaired meetings, served on committees, organized events, or simply picked up the slack without the benefit of scriptural oversight are to be commended for their efforts. Furthermore, may God bless all the faithful who stood firm for the congregation when others sought greener pastures in other places. You are to be praised! With all praise and appreciation given, let us say, “Thanks be to God!” For today we can release those uncertain days into the past. The rays of the sun on the horizon have given birth to a new day. It is time to let go of the frustrations and failures. We can be edified by the lessons we have learned in our struggles, but it is time to lead, follow, and serve today with a hope for tomorrow. Let us breath in the refreshing spirit of the new day and cleanse our hearts and minds of any heartaches, disappointments, and aggravation of days gone by. Let’s press on together! This is not the time to relax. On the contrary, this is a time for diligent effort in abounding for the Lord. The eldership is brand new and has much to learn about leading the flock of God. Full devotion to and unwavering love for the congregation and an inexhaustible commitment to God is what is needed by the congregation, expected by God, and accepted by the elders. This is what 1 Peter 5:2-3 calls for, “Shepherd the flock of God which is among you, serving as overseers, not by compulsion but willingly,[ not for dishonest gain but eagerly; nor as being lords over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock…” Additionally, the new elders are not the only ones that will have to do some learning. The membership will need to recall or re-learn what it is to have scriptural leadership. That takes effort as well. Following the elders lead may seem awkward at first, but it will be beneficial for all, (Hebrews 13:17). As we venture into this new day, we should accept that we will still fall short from time to time. But if we stand together in unity as we press toward the upward call of God and devote ourselves wholly to His glory, God will bless us and we can be a great and glorious church!